I've had friends who've gone through some major first date blunders. Now, I am not saying I am the
master of dating; it is a craft I continue to hone. I, like most men in the
world, have had my share of first dates gone bad. First dates will already be
filled with nervousness and butterflies, but I would like to give a few tips to
help a guy out. Instead of learning by trial and error, apply the following six
dating don’ts as part of your date night.
- Don’t say she looks pretty – Yes, pretty is a good compliment, but it’s date night. She just spent hours in the bathroom getting ready. Let her know she is beautiful, gorgeous, amazing etc.
- Don’t be on your phone – Dates are a time to be unplugged. The social media world, Fantasy Football scores, and all the texts can wait. This is a personal battle for me, so sometimes I just turn the phone off. Unless it’s an emergency, the rest of the world can wait a few hours.
- Don’t dress down - I don’t mean dress to the nines if you’re going to Olive Garden and a movie but don’t go in your shorts and graphic tee either. She will take time to look special for your date, so take time to look nice too. It shows this quality time with her was special enough to you to dress up a little.
- Don’t eat anything you’ll regret – Garlic, Onion, beans etc. No explanation needed.
- Don’t talk about past relationships- Past dating history will come eventually in the relationship. Your first date is not the time to rehash it though.
- Don’t be late – A gentleman is always on time.
Now as a married man, I don’t do the first date gig
anymore, but I still avoid these don’ts on my own date nights with Meredith. By
making sure you DON’T do these dating fails, you DO
have a chance at the second date. What are some of your dating don’ts?
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